Can you make your life better today with 67 steps?

Many people have been living a miserable life. They are just surviving through the day without knowing where they are heading. Are you one of those people? If you are, then I have found a few steps that can potentially make your life better. And here they are:

  1. Read more books.

Reading is by far the most important thing to do. You have to read to know more. Someone has said “the more you learn the more you earn”. If you are looking to increase your income, you will have to read. But how can you be a more effective reader? Everyone has a busy life. Here is what you can do:

  • Break the rules: The book is there to serve you. You don’t have to read from back to back. Feel free to skip around to the important parts.
  • Take notes when you are reading: There are so many contents out there that taking note has become utmost important. You will want to highlight the ideas that are most important to you so you can revisit once you have finished a book. Do not let any useful ideas be wasted.
  1. Finding mentors.
  • It’s true that you can learn everything by yourself through trial and error. However, having a mentor 40 years ahead of you, who has made the devastating mistakes show you the way is so much better. You need to understand that this will shorten your path to success drastically.
  • Mentors will also give you more confidence, which is key to succeed in any field. Having someone who can give you a hand, believe in you and lift you up through hard times is the best.
  1. Invest wisely.
  • There are so many opportunities out there and those who know how to catch it early will be successful. You will have to invest not only money but also time and effort. An opportunity usually stays around for 7 years. You have to catch the wave when it’s still early.
  • You will have to be able to tell the difference between cost and investment. A cost will have no chance of gaining value in the future whereas an investment can appreciate in value. The early you understand this concept the better.
  1. Have a great time
  • An important part of living is to enjoy the process. Everyone wants to go to the end goal as soon as possible. But as Freud said in civilization and its discontents, we all face decay and dissolution. So the best way to get to your goals is to enjoy the process of getting there. Never put so much pressure on yourself. You just have to focus on being a better person every single day and the dots will connect. You will eventually get to where you want to be.
  • Remember to celebrate your achievements, even though they are small. Our mind often seeks validations. By celebrating (recognizing our progress), we will feel very refreshed and ready to face the challenges.
  1. Put things in perspective
  • We live in a peaceful era where opportunities are all around for us to grasps. Hence, we must appreciate what we are having now because it is the effort of the previous generations, who have died to protect the peace and order on this planet Earth. Keep that in mind and you will never fail.
  • To get there quickly, please check out the 67 steps review for more information on how you can get ahead in life.

The no contact to desire your ex back

You always have to remember the no contact rule if you want your ex to come back. How long should this no contact period should be, you might ask? Well, it has to be at least 30 days. Basically, it should be as long as you need to get yourself together and think positively about your life with our without your ex. I have seen scenarios where it takes at least 6 months of no contact.

Lots of people have asked me the question that how is it going to affect your ex if you do not contact him or her for a period of time. Some asked what if they have moved on. To understand this, let’s break it down to simple questions. First, should you inform your ex that you are in no contact mode? The answer is no. What you want is for them to wonder what is going on in your life and why you are not contacting them. You have to pretend to be your ex and get in their mind. Informing them will not serve the goal.

Having said that, if your ex is contacting you daily then you should tell them that you don’t want them to contact you for a certain period. You will not want to say the exact amount of time. But tell them to not contact until you make the first move. You have to tell them you need some time alone.

Some asked me if it is not nice following the no contact rule. Well, you have to ask yourself this. Was it nice that your ex broke your heart and left you hanging? But you still want to be nice? The answer is a straight NO. And you have to understand that you are doing this because you want to help yourself get a peace of mind as well. So please, do not feel bad about not contacting your ex.

Some have asked me if they should answer their ex call. And the answer is still, just like the above, NO. The only time you would answer is when you are at the end of your no contact period and you have already felt rejuvenated about your life. You will have to use your judgment here. If you believe, even with the smallest chance, that you will become needy after speaking to your ex. Please do not answer the call even though it is very tempting.

Another common question is what if my ex have met someone new and that he or she might have forgotten me. The answer is NO they will NOT. If you guys used to be in an official relationship, there is no way on earth that he or she could move on swiftly. And you have to remember. No contact is only going to make them miss you more and recall all the great qualities about you.

Some event asked me if the no contact period can be just couple days break. Is this even possible? The answer is NO. It will take time and effort for you to overcome the negative emotions after a breakup. As I mentioned above, you need to start loving your life before contacting your ex. This is impossible in just a few days. Please be patient and you shall be rewarded. And remember remember to tell yourself language of desire reviews before going to bed.

Someone told me that you cannot give what you do not have. If you do not love yourself, you cannot give love to the other person. Please remember this key idea in mind when you are tempted to contact your ex. Love yourself and others will follow.